Here’s How to get Better Healing Results: Let Go of Needing Results!

(To experience this lovely paradox, watch the video below.)

Instead of trying to achieve what you want by single-minded striving, I invite you to try the opposite: non-attachment to what you want. Yep, it’s paradoxical, but just give it a try for a few minutes and you’ll see! In this way of healing, you’ll get better healing results if you unclench – even for a little while. And I’ll show you how to let go, easily, in the video below.

Letting go is hard to do – if you try to do it by changing your Mind or Emotions. But it’s incredibly fast and easy when you shift your Energy Field with Energetic Alignments! Try it now…

Watch the Video for a Free Sample…

Your energy will shift – so try it now! (It takes about 5 minutes.)

What changed for you? Please comment below!

Have you ever “desperately” needed a specific outcome? For example:

  • “Nothing will ever be OK, unless I get this (healing, money, relationship, spiritual result).
  • “I cannot get sick right now, I have too much work!”
  • “Life will totally suck until… I move out of this horrible house, or lose weight, or retire from my crappy job, or so-and-so apologizes to me.”

Well, I’ll tell you from personal experience… that state of desperation is absolutely the least effective state to be in, if you want healing and Wholeness.

Of course, it’s highly possible to get great results in this less-than-optimal state – at least at first. I’ve seen countless cases of desperate or needy clients who experience “miraculous” healing results – the first few times. But clients who continue with this work will likely experience a plateau in getting good results, IF they do not let go of over-attachment to outcome, desperation, or other non-Centered emotional and mental states.

But How to Let Go?

It’s easy to release neediness, when you feel fine and dandy. But when you are in pain or problem mode (physical, mental, emotional or spiritual) it can seem impossible to shift into that optimal healing state, where you are non-attached to outcome.

Well, there’s an App for that.
It’s a simple Now Healing tool that many people are raving about, called the “Slingshot/Arrow” Alignment. With this tool, it takes about two seconds to let go of feeling depleted, deprived, and downtrodden. ( I can’t give away the App – you’ll have to enroll!)

What shifted for you as you watched the video?

Please Add Your Comment Below!

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Comments (please add yours below)


  1. RHODEL CHEDRICH-AVRITT on February 6, 2022 at 1:01 am

    I have a sense of well-being ~~~
    thank 🙏 you

  2. JJ on May 5, 2021 at 12:39 pm

    Thank you so much for your generosity in sharing this information and videos. So potently beneficial.

  3. Clare Conway on April 22, 2021 at 4:44 pm

    I did actually feel lighter despite being slightly skeptical

  4. Alan Polglaseb on October 11, 2019 at 10:57 pm

    Elma, I believe you may have sent me this video in response to comments I made in relation to me not being aware of shifts and changes.
    Well I did notice a shift when I first did this and I am happy to say that
    I did feel a change. It did not seem as important any more.

  5. Claudette Charlebois on January 21, 2019 at 9:13 am

    Dear Elma for this video l am not sure of the shifts yet. But I must admit that lots of shifts has happen since working with you..Ex. My back problem, my pain from fibro.gone.My whole attitude, feeling ect.
    A big transformation is happening in my body ,mind and soul.
    Thank you so much.
    Love C.C💓

  6. Eugenia on January 2, 2018 at 7:20 am

    Always get welcome changes——-RELIEF !! Stlil deciding on which program to purchase resources an issue—–so will disentangle from this ? much gratitude !! Eugenia

  7. Kaye Lowder on December 30, 2017 at 6:42 pm

    Feel much better!

  8. Mrs Africa on April 25, 2017 at 1:28 am

    I dont know if it has worked but with all the finances desperation I am in. To see the light each mornings makes me feel ‘another day with incertainty’.
    This mng, I feel lighter. I ll post in 3days for update.
    Elma, trinity blessings upon u.

  9. Clare Dyck on December 12, 2016 at 2:29 am

    Thanks for the face-to-face reminder Elma. I’m using it regularly but am wondering whether your presentation of it is more effective than mine.
    I’ve found myself stuck in a recurring issue of deep dislike, intolerance, judgement, resistance. It re-presents each evening with distortions of the diaphragm (could be described as mild acid-reflux) and unpleasant mucous lodged in the sinuses. Disentanglement and working with Wholeness etc. is effective until the next evening when some attitude sparks it off again.
    Perhaps I’m unknowingly hanging on to the healing expectations – or – there are layers upon layers of this difficulty re-playing the same gramophone record groove! Or perhaps I’m needing to repeat “Attitude”. The situation has arisen since the Teleseminar.
    PS: I’m so sorry your video making methods don’t work for everyone. I do understand the trickiness of having to concentrate when English isn’t the Mother language. Knowing how your Inner Voices benefit every one of us HERE’S POWER TO THE CAPTIONS adding to the easy transmission of your invaluable teachings.

  10. Margi on October 12, 2016 at 10:02 am

    Elma this comes at the exact time I need it. I was giving in anger at physical discomfort. I am not used to feeling like this but now I am calm again. I will do it some more. xxx

  11. Susie on October 1, 2016 at 2:00 pm

    You’re so beautiful, Elma. Thank you.

  12. Gail on September 23, 2016 at 11:30 am

    What a great reminder!!! I felt the peace and the shift–my faced started tingling ; also the issue was placed in the NOW healing space which it seem to surround me. I sensed the intensity of the issue lessening. Thanks!!!

  13. Robin Elizabeth Hall on August 17, 2016 at 5:48 pm

    persistent pain underneath shoulder blade is almost gone on 2nd try. First try yesterday, pain reduced from 9.5 to 7, today from 7 reduced to 5. Will repeat over next few days until it is gone.

    Three days ago, I did the 1st session for vertigo which encompasses brain fog, dizziness, faintness, disorientation and a feeling that I am about to pass out. Not had vertigo since until this afternoon when felt it coming back, I said “No you don’t” and it stopped. Will do more sessions for vertigo until it totally gone.
    Thank you

  14. Cathy on August 2, 2016 at 11:52 am

    I felt much lighter regarding the subject I tuned into. Excited for more to come! Thank you!

  15. Ursula on January 7, 2016 at 2:41 am

    I love simplicity and clarity and you have both; so beautiful and completely effective without any jargon or fluff! You are a gift Elma, thank you xxx

  16. Elma Mayer on October 10, 2015 at 9:02 am

    @Clare, thanks for spreading the joy, delight, beauty etc! And yes, Dawn Clark’s work is wonderful, I love it, and I find a lot of commonality with her work. However, I don’t focus too much on “morphogenetic fields” and DNA, unless it happens to show up as something that needs Reintegrating. Instead, I start from a wider-angle perspective with “morphic fields” (which include habits, patterns, and memories, in individual and collective minds, and the universal mind / consciousness).
    Love and Wholeness,

  17. Clare Dyck on September 21, 2015 at 1:34 pm

    Elma .. Dawn Clark of RECODE YOUR DNA (on Darius Barazonde’s Now Wealth site – where I found you!!) uses ‘Glimpsing” to describe Source Code corruption throwing DNA out of sync with success. She’s working in Morphogenetic Fields and likens this state to a virus in one’s operating system communicating the dysfunction to all around.
    Self-healing work has had an immovable block and I believe now it’s found! I’ve presented the matter here. There’s been definite shifting in all the work I do with you: Joy. Delight in relationship. Wonder at the beauty in all nature. Physical discomforts lessening.Gratitude for everything and every one. Change in others. I’ll keep you posted dear Mentor. Thank you!

  18. Mary campbell on August 31, 2015 at 10:52 pm

    Interesting concept, this is the first time I’ve tried this, but I’m will to try again. Thank you

  19. pam on August 11, 2015 at 6:48 am

    Love getting your email links and incredibly I find your alignments almost always target the issue prominent in my mind. Your videos are refreshing and natural, you speak simply and clearly, no glib and slippery cliches, just genuine and generous action.

    I;ve had great results from your detox mp3’s, they’ve helped me to detach from relationship difficulties and see them with new perspectives, and the alignments truly bring about change!. Formerly ‘difficult’ people now treat me like a valued friend.

    Straight after your alignment I usually feel a subtle lightening of tension, anxiety or mood and the knots in my stomach dissolve. Next day, and for up to a week later I notice shifts in my thinking and understanding of people and situations, and can respond in calmer and more detached ways.

    I could go on and on about the kinds of change I’ve experienced, but in a nutshell I’m now a more relaxed and confident person. I feel like I’ve found me.

    My academically-trained and skeptical mind can’t comprehend how this works, I don’t understand the language of morphic resonance, energy fields, and energy shifts. All I know is that I have experienced incredible change and I’m looking forward to deeper involvement with iNowHealing, and being part of spreading its beneficence more widely through your teleseminars, and other healings. Blessings on you for your generous sharing of this wonderful gift.

  20. Susan Wolford on June 15, 2015 at 1:31 am

    I love the fact that your video is spur of the moment. I found the sound of the waves relaxing, however I Could understand how you might be hard to understand if English was my 2nd language. Once again, you gave me the wisdom I need to hear, exactly WHEN I needed to hear it. I must disengage from the outcome I want in regard to my job, so I am OPEN to infinite possibilities. THANK YOU:)

  21. Vet on December 3, 2014 at 3:28 pm

    Dear Elma;
    Words cannot express my gratitude but take it as it is: Thank YOU!!!! from the deepest part pf my heart.
    As soon as I get some money which i’m working I’m going for Now healing 101 and then become teleseminar member. Kepp me in consciousness. I need to take all your Level 1,2,3 classes.
    Bless your heart Elma…LYTY

  22. Elma Mayer on November 28, 2014 at 12:32 pm


    When working with space, or another person, you can either do an “Enter” to your Center, or you can “Come from your Center” as you say the Alignment/command. Play with both ways, and you’ll notice that you’ll automatically end up doing it in the way that’s most appropriate in the moment.

  23. Nicole on November 27, 2014 at 11:32 am

    Hi Elma
    I have recently bought your YouWealthRevolution Detox program and am so inspired by what I have heard so far. I have not listened to all the mp3s my apologies if this question is covered in the program.

    I want to know how to use the Align and Disentangle and Reintegrate commands when working on my daughter.
    Also, I did not quite understand the house clearing…when I say Disentangle when thinking about a particular room in the house, do I focus on my centre?
    Thank you!!

  24. Elma Mayer on October 28, 2014 at 7:43 am

    Hi Marysia – Sorry you had a hard time understanding the English! I really should put subtitles on these videos, I will try to do that next time. (If you watch it on YouTube, there is a caption feature that sometimes works.)

    I make these videos when inspiration strikes me – that’s why I record them myself, with my iPhone. I don’t necessarily plan ahead, so it’s difficult to have a cameraman! Also, the background energy is very important to the video, especially when there are waves or water or wind in the trees – it’s all part of the gestalt. Thirdly, I really love being able to do “home-made” video, freeing me from the constraints of high production values (I’d love to do a well-produced video, but the time and energy it takes to do that would take time and energy away from doing the essence of my purpose, which is to create states of Wholeness.) You may have also noticed that my makeup is non-existent except for some smudged lipstick, and that the camera has added 500 pounds! But if I insisted on perfection, I’d never make any healing videos at all. Thanks for your comment, and I do understand your frustration! I will try to remember to caption the videos from now on.
    Love and Wholeness,

  25. Marysia on October 28, 2014 at 3:45 am

    Dear Elma,
    Thank you for this video, but I have some technical comment on it.

    Please take the next time some more quiet background!
    I am now very distracted by the waves and most of all the sound of it.
    I know it is ratter tempting to have such nice background, but when you want tell some important stuff, it’s better to not have any noises at all (or very quiet).
    When I want to hear waves, I will look for such a video, but when I want to listen (specially when English is not my mother-language), I want to clearly hear your voice and not the waves.

    And, perhaps better to take the video the next time by someone else, so the picture can’t shake like crazy.
    All is well, but It’s not very professional now and distracts very much from the massage you wanted to gave us.

    With Gratitude,

  26. marce on August 7, 2014 at 4:19 pm

    Dear Elma you rock and this works… thanks a lot! +greatings from south spain

  27. Elizabeth Stratton on July 3, 2014 at 2:09 pm

    HI Elma, I realy admoie the depth and breadth of your knowledge ,and beautiful way you present your work. I love experimenting with this work, using the Disentangle, Reiintegrate and Now commands to myself and others, ie, my Cat and my Dog, Hubby also. Thank you. Thank you. Thanks you fof all the great work you do.
    Much Love,
    Elizabeth in NY =O)- <3

  28. Lori on September 6, 2013 at 5:16 pm


    Amazing..amazing ..amazing ! ! Thank you for the instantaneous shifts ! ! !

    Much love and gratitude ! !!

  29. Dr. V on July 2, 2013 at 7:47 am

    Always get change with this, Elma! Thank you — I’m getting to the point where I can just stop and Enter, and I’m there again; where I need to be for wholeness and wonderful living. It’s so awesome!

  30. Alma on June 25, 2013 at 1:27 pm

    Thank You Elma, I am finding your method very effective, love to become aware and desentangle !!

  31. Ramona on June 25, 2013 at 6:11 am

    Elma, I want to be on that beach–where are you?

  32. Cara on June 23, 2013 at 3:45 pm

    Dear Elma – once again, I noticed a tremendous shift in working with this video. This work is so transformative in very gentle and easy ways. I love how Now Healing shifts the energy of any issue and changes how I then perceive the issue almost instantaneously. You are talented and gifted in ways that defy description. I can’t wait for the July 6 call. Thank you for all you give to us! Namaste, Cara

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