What’s the most important part of your relationships?
Hint: it has nothing to do with the other person! It’s not about whether they like you, understand you, or respect you.
What is truly essential is… your “energy.” How you show up in the relationship. I’m not even talking about “what you bring to the relationship.” It’s even more foundational than that.
It is the quality and essence of who you are being. Not just in the presence of others, but in the presence of your self alone.
Your essence – who you are being – creates the fundamental frequency that sets the tone for the entire relationship.
The essence that you project is a powerful attractor. It resonates with others, even from afar. It brings people into your field. People who support you… or distort you.
And once a person comes into your field – whether it’s a lover, a newborn child, an employer, a healer, or a passing stranger on the subway – your essence also creates your perceptions of, and reactions to, that other person. And those reactions, in turn, further build the tones and harmonics – or disharmonies – of the relationship.
If you blame your reactions on the other person, you escalate discord. On the other hand, if you blame yourself, you are not plugging in to your highest essence!
So… who are you, in your projection out into the world? What resonances do you broadcast? Harmonize with? Beat in dissonance with? What are you attracting or repelling? Think about it – not just in the cliche Law of Attraction sense, but in the Law of Similars sense… and the Morphic Resonance sense.
Are you really being your highest self, in your relationships? What about in your primary relationships – with parents, partners, kids?
If not, then you are not allowing the other people in the relationship to step up and be their highest selves too. Because they will match your “vibration” – or more accurately, they will match your resonance.
If you come to a relationship from a needy place, or from your “lowest self,” and then expect the other person to elevate you… well, that’s expecting way too much. Plus, it’s relinquishing your power and responsibility.
So… what to do?
Always be your highest self!
That’s sooooo easy, right? 😉
If it’s not that easy for you… If you happen to need a little help, I am here for you!
Ready to Upgrade your Relationship Resonance?
In this Guided Healing Call, I will show you how to:
- Attract people that support you, rather than distort you!
- Upgrade your “foundational frequency” that you bring to relationships.
- Disentangle from unwanted ancestral resonances and other morphic fields that distort your relationship broadcasts. So that you can beam out a beacon of your highest vibration!
- Re-integrate your existing relationships with Highest Self… for all parties!
Even if you don’t think that relationships are a big issue for you, they influence everything. Your health and wealth just for starters.
So that’s why you want to be in your best Relationship Resonance! That’s why you want to be in your highest relationship with resonance, no matter what.
Attract people that support (rather than distort) your health, wealth, wisdom, life’s work, play and purpose. Tune up your own resonance, to attract and “match the vibration” of your ideal friends, lovers, business partners, teachers, clients, etc. Do you have problems with certain people? Don’t try to “fix” them… That’s not very effective. Plus… what to do about people you are “stuck” with… like family members.
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Hi, I’m Elma Mayer, Founder of Now Healing. My higher purpose is to amplify your innate instant-healing ability – whether you are an advanced healer, or just starting out. And shhh, just between us: my secret ulterior motive is for you to not only heal yourself and your loved ones, but the entire planet! Tens of thousands of people have used my Now Healing tools to do incredibly effective instant-energy healing, with ease. And you can too. Let's do it now!