Over-Giving and Under-Receiving: Get Balanced Now!

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Do you have an imbalance, in your patterns of Giving and Receiving?

Maybe you:

  • Give too much, yet feel unappreciated?
  • Experience lack, yet feel blocked to receiving?
  • Feel guilty about taking what others freely offer?
  • Think you must do everything alone?
  • Feel incapable to “do it yourself”, and want someone to rescue you?

Over-Giving and Under-Receiving is probably one of the least balanced dynamics for most people — even for highly-evolved folks.

I know one incredibly generous, giving woman, who actually donated her kidney to a friend… yet she squirms in discomfort when she receives the slightest little  gift from others. On the opposite end of the spectrum, I know several otherwise brilliant and wonderful people who have unlimited capacity to take help, money and favors of all kinds, yet rarely say “thank-you” and never seem to remember that it’s nice to bring a bottle of wine to a dinner party. (These are all members of my family. You know who you are!)

And me? When I’m not at my best, I’ve been known to push my “help” onto people, then feel resentful when they don’t appreciate it. Yes, we all have our foibles! Who can’t use an upgrade, in this area?!?

Why Balance Giving and Receiving?

Because it affects all life areas – including

  • Your Body
  • Your Buddies, Babes and Bosses
  • Your Bank Account

From money to love, work and play, time and space.. things just work better with a balance of giving and receiving. So get started – balance it now…

Your Instant Alignments:

Instructions: To activate these Alignments, simply come from
your Center for 1 second, as you read the word “now” below.
(This Enters the command to your entire body/mind/spirit/energy-field…
which shifts your energy, and changes your reality… now!)

Prepare to shift energy instantly:

  • Align with the Now Healing Space of instant change and Wholeness… now.
  • Align with Infinite Self… now.
  • Align body, mind, spirit with the Center… now.

Observe: Where are you, on this scale? Wherever your attention goes first, that’s your answer! Please note – there is no wrong answer! It is what it is, and it constantly changes.

Receiving   −10 <———0———> 10   Giving

Command:

  • Align with being at 10 (Giving)… now.
  • Align with being at -10 (Receiving)… now.
  • Align with being Centered… now.
  • Align with shifting to the appropriate state, as needed… now.
  • Align with dynamic balance… now.
  • Re-Integrate this balance with time, space, matter, energy, being,
    and all areas of life… now.
  • Allow these Alignments to be Real… now.

Observe Again: Where are you now, on the scale?

More Commands:

  • Move it to Center… now!
  • And most important, take that Center, that 0, and expand it into a large circle that includes the whole continuum of Giving / Receiving… now!
  • Expand it further, off your computer screen, so that it includes your body, mind, spirit, relationships, finances, etc…. now!

You have just created a huge morphic field shift! Take a nice slow breath… in and out. Be at your Center. Notice what happens in your life, related to Giving and Receiving!

What changed for you, after you did the Free Alignment above? Leave a Comment below!

That was just a tiny hint of what is possible!

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Comments (please add yours below)

14 Comments

  1. Evelyn mason on December 16, 2022 at 12:19 pm

    This is a cure all really Elma. It’s so wonderfull I can’t thank you enough sincerely Evelyn



  2. Karuna Chapman on April 1, 2022 at 8:57 pm

    Thank you Elma, this has been a wonder full year of receiving your free alignments. Very powerful and beneficial practices. Blessings to you. with love, karuna



  3. Robin Elizabeth Hall on August 20, 2016 at 9:14 pm

    Dear Elma
    Thank you. I feel expanded, more at peace. Lacking an income I deeply appreciate your generosity, kindness and sensitivity in offering free mini balances of energy. In only a few days since I discovered your work, Now Healing and have experienced two astonishing changes. You have a heart of gold. xo Robin



  4. Clare Dyck on November 20, 2015 at 12:31 pm

    This work is INCREDIBLE. Simple. Easy. AND IT WORKS. This IS Prayer. You have instructed me how to find my Infinite Self and I dance with joy melding with this magnificence. My Infinite Self is made of brilliant white Light – I’ve seen it! Suddenly all the spiritual teachings are very real. I am the cross chanelling the brilliance of Heaven into Earth. What did Buzz Aldrin say when seeing our incredibly beautiful blue Planet from Space .. We have discovered Earth .. ? Thanks to you Elma, I’m discovering All That Is. And I’m part of it!
    Elma you’ve taught how to find Creatorship.



  5. carine on May 26, 2015 at 6:30 am

    thanks for the gift!!!!



  6. Tatjana on September 5, 2014 at 2:18 am

    Thank you very much, for excellently communicating, what you do.
    Couple a days ago I found your website. And it gave me a lot of insights on questions that I had. And listening to one of your free video healing, I must say, I am seeing much greater changes inside me and in my space – for the better :).
    So thank you.



  7. Sunday Oliver on December 9, 2012 at 2:16 pm

    Hello Tori, I would say that what happens in sessions like these is that your being gets the sensation of what it’s like to receive. (that is why it’s important to center, and not just do this in your paying-the-bills state of mind.) Energetically – and scientifically – we can only be a part of a field we are resonant with – we are on a harmonious vibration with. To me, this exercise gives us a chance to practice being in tune with the field of receiving/giving.

    And for myself- I came down here to the comments because of the bonus “commands”, which poetically opened up a whole area of possibilities for me. Giving/receiving has been on my mind for a long time, and I know it’s a part of the illness I’ve been dealing with for years. And also, the way I get it, there’s huge distortion around giving and receiving in this culture and what it means in regard to power, the use of power. So I really appreciate this piece, Elma, and I will not only try it again but some bits of it are inspiring me to take my own spin on them and see where that leads. Thank you so much.



  8. janet sellers on November 18, 2012 at 3:40 pm

    Well, I did feel a shift to neutral and the zero. My back hurts less. I’m ready for financial prospects and prosperity! I’ve signed up to be an affiliate with you. I like it that I feel more clear with you – some Yuen Method people I don’t catch the wave… even with Dr. Yuen sometimes.

    Thanks!



  9. Elma Mayer on November 5, 2012 at 8:09 pm

    @tori – fortunately, we don’t have to “understand” how to do this work. If we did, I would never be able to do it!

    Do we really understand how to sing, or balance as we ride a bicycle? If someone tried to verbally describe it to us, and we didn’t allow ourselves to try it until we understood it cognitively, we would never do it. I’m going to invoke an advertising slogan here: Just Do It. This is a kinesthetic/Mind experience, not an intellectual one. You use your awareness – both Mind awareness and physical/sensational awareness – and focus it in the area you’re working on. The Command works way beyond the conscious mind (most of the universe happens outside of our consciousness). It basically opens circuits and connects you to the thing you are Aligning with. Why does it work? How does it work? I’ll leave that to the scientists, philosophers and metaphysicians. Why does music work? Why does food taste good? We don’t need to know, in order to experience them.



  10. Kate McManus on November 5, 2012 at 12:09 pm

    Hi Elma

    I couldn’t believe the synchronicity of your healing session on giving and receiving, it came just at the right time! I had, and am still continuing to have,some profound shifts and insights into this area of life that I have been struggling with for many years.
    Many Thanks
    Kate



  11. tori on November 3, 2012 at 9:54 pm

    I don’t understand. If I am not used to receiving, and don’t really know how, how can simply giving a command get me to do it? I sincerely would like to know, thanks.



  12. nedii on November 3, 2012 at 10:17 am

    [From Live Guided Healing Session] Wow. Very powerful on giving and receiving. I’m bowled over. Some very emotional issues now feel clean and clear.



  13. Sharon Bailey on November 3, 2012 at 10:14 am

    [From Live Guided Healing Session] Wow Elma! ANOTHER GREAT CALL! The Giving & Receiving call was awesome. Loved the technique to collapse the issue to zero then expand into wholeness. That is really effective. Then I follow up with your other multi-dimensional clearing techniques and the I feel totally transformed.



  14. WILLIAM DAVIS on November 3, 2012 at 3:55 am

    DEAR ELMA:
    THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR ALL THE FREE INFO YOU GIVE AWAY SPECIALLY ON THE VIDEOS
    THAT ARE EXCELLENT SPECIALLY FOR ME THE ONE ABOUT WHOLENESS EXAMPLES, ENTER THE NOW HEALING SPACE, ETC THEY ARE LIKE MEDITATIONS FOR ME.

    I WILL BE LIVE TODAY MY FIRST TIME ON GUIDED HEALING SESSION… EVEN IT IS AT 2AM IN AUSTRALIA ( SUNDAY 4TH). IT IS OK…

    I NEED YOUR HELP, TO HEAL MY STOMACH. I SAID SO IN MY INTENTION FOR TODAY SESSION. I AM DOING MY HOME WORK DOING MY HEALINGS WITH YOUR VIDEOS AND DOING IT EVERY DAY FOR THE LAST 2 WEEKS…I THINK I AM FEELING BETTER AND IT IS NOT MY IMAGINATION.

    I KNOW IT IS GOING TO BE MUCH BETTER WITH YOUR HELP IN WORKING WITH THE ENERGY
    IN MY BODY…IT IS AN OLD PROBLEM MORE THAN 40 YEARS AND IT IS RELATE TO STRESS AND TENSION ETC…BUT IT IS GETTING BETTER.

    THANK YOU AGAIN AND I HAVE A LOT OF FAITH ON YOU.

    WILLIAM FROM AUSTRALIA (BORN IN URUGUAY 1937)



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